Thursday, 24 April 2014

18 Struggles Only Over-Thinkers Will Understand

I read this article on here on thoughtcatalog that talked about the struggles that over-thinkers face (read 'create for themselves') and couldnt help but say "hahaha..that's so true!" on every point that I read.

So you think that you think more than you should think? :P If yes, then read on, and giggle on your description!


1. Your need to find meaning in everything usually culminates into crafting conspiracy theories about what the period placement in a text means.
2. You end up making every situation in your life about 100x more difficult than it has to be.
3. You cannot let anything go, because you’re convinced that if you just run over the details a few more times, you’ll finally uncover some new understanding of the situation or it will somehow change the outcome.
4. You’ve probably never been sure about a thing in your life. You’ve approached everything from choosing a school and a partner to your outfit in the morning and brand of bread at the grocery store with equal levels of angst.
5. You could get a Master’s degree in interpreting what the song lyrics people post really mean.
6. Though your critical thinking skills are pretty on point, the toughest reality you’ve had to come to terms with is the fact that, simply, noteverything has a deeper, secret, hidden meaning that everyone knows but you.
7. You’re constantly thanking the friends who stick around to hear you mull over the same details of a situation or relationship again and again, and though you never really arrive at a different conclusion, just the act of overthinking is enough for you.
8. Constantly having to consult your other friends with screenshots and vivid details of any chance occurrence in your life is daily routine for you.
9. It doesn’t matter what word someone used, if there’s any way you can spin it to mean something more, you will. You’ll take the fourth definition of it in the dictionary, apply it to your worst trait and spend the rest of the day reeling.
10. You are known to regret texts, hesitate over writing emails, delete and re-write tweets, all because you could and should have said something other than what you did and will.
11. Your hangover after a night out drinking is nothing compared to the fear of what you could have said to that one person you’d rather die than act like an idiot around while drunk.
12. Sleep is the most difficult aspect of your life, because laying silently in the dark is the only time you aren’t distracted enough to not be able to sink into racing thoughts.
13. You convince yourself that the worst case scenario will come true in basically, y’know, any scenario.
14. Social media is a minefield for you. You are certain every subtweet has something to do with you, even if it’s from a stranger, that so-and-so used that emoji because they’re flirting with the love of your life and so on and so forth.
15. If someone ever breaks up with you/declines to go out with you, you convince yourself it’s because of a hundred inconsequential missteps you made.
16. You often find yourself proudly stating to your friends that you “figured out” what someone “really meant” by something, only to have them laugh and say “you are so overthinking this, I can’t even right now.”
17. You end up torturing yourself over every other banal side comment someone makes because obviously there is some meaning to be uncovered, it’s clearly just a matter of thinking about it until you find it.
18. God forbid anyone unfollow you on Twitter or Instagram, or unfriend you on Facebook, because you won’t sleep until you figure out who it was and why.

Saturday, 19 April 2014

How to clean Rotring Isograph pens

If you're an architecture, design or fine-arts student, you might find this post particularly helpful. Although I'm not sure how many colleges (if at all) still recommend using Rotring pens; because I see everybody running after digital world of softwares now. 

Anyway! So it is jury time.. Rotring pens have been taken out of the drawers. Sheet is set, so is the mood, but your Rotring Pen JUST wont agree to work! which is because last semester you were waiting for the exams to get over SO BAD that the thought of cleaning your pens before storing them in the box for another 4 months just didn't cross your mind. and now you don't want to get bankrupt to be able to buy the whole set again. What to do? 

Instead of getting irritated, soaking the pen in hot water and re-filling the ink a gazillion times in hope that your blocked pen would start working again miraculously, you could follow these steps and enjoy a smooooth time working for submissions!



Take it into bits as shown above. The black butt bit that connects to the cartridge can be unscrewed with a knife or a flat head screwdriver, incase you're too scared of knives.
View of butt of inner nib. Use tweezers to carefully remove for cleaning

Then remove the inner nib with tweezers, or just pull it with your long manicured nails. :P


The inner nib
                                         
Carefully and extremely gently, wipe off any stuck ink from the nib inner (the needle like bit). A steady hand required.

After rinsing in hot water and scrubbing with a toothbrush and hot soapy water, blow into the main outer nib (after carefully extracting the outer nib with tweezers) as hard as possible to dislodge stuck in the nib. 


Then very carefully put inner nib into outer nib slowly and gently finding the hole in the centre. 

Add the other bits.

Load up the cartridge and lock and load. If all's gone to plan, the ink should flow!

If you find it useful, do let me know! :) Good luck for your submissions!

Sunday, 16 February 2014

Hot ≠ Beautiful

I read an article today that discussed about how being 'hot' differs from being 'beautiful', and I couldn't help but love it. Here are the last lines from that article which I thought of sharing.. 
"Hot is admired from afar; beauty is to be held.
Hot is perception; beauty is appreciation.
Hot is smokey-eyed; beautiful is bare-faced.
Hot is an appearance; beautiful is more than skin deep.
Hot is the way she moans; beautiful is the way she speaks.
Hot is a strong appeal; beautiful is strong mind.
Hot is youthful; beautiful is ageless.
Hot is conventional; beauty is unique.
Hot is a one-night stand; beautiful is sleepless nights.
Hot is a state of being; beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Hot is devious; beautiful is innocent.
Hot is bending her over; beautiful is baking her blueberry pancakes.
Hot is sultry; beautiful is wholesome.
Hot is her curves; beauty is her nerves.
Hot is a text message; beautiful is a love letter.
Hot is a facade; beautiful is a woman."

Although the article read about how its time that men need to be reminded about the difference between being hot and beautiful, I think before that we as 'women' need to realise this difference first. I see a lot of women around me investing so much of their time and money in that race of impressing the opposite sex. And more often than not, I see them feeling bad about not being able to look as beautiful in that party as that girl who totally stole the show with her LBD and stilettos. I think before blaming men for running after this show stopper, we as women need to take a breath, embrace ourselves and feel beautiful for the person we are. 
For “hotness” doesn’t last past midnight, when the makeup has smudged onto the pillow and the hair extensions have been taken out. It doesn’t last when the spray tans have washed away and the tight dresses have come off; but "beauty" always does. 
And you can expect any other person to acknowledge and appreciate your beauty only after 'you' do! :)

What are your views about it? Do let me know in the comment box. 
You can read the full article here- http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/the-actual-difference-between-women-who-are-hot-and-who-are-beautiful/

Sunday, 9 February 2014

Gifting some positivity..

Sooo.. since I've been very determined to make 2014 the most positive year I've lived so far, I decided to gift some positivity too!
I decided to make this painting for all my friends, family and cousins, which would remind them about how 'Happiness is a choice that we make. It is always upto us to let or not let worries and tensions linger on around us.'


Here is a quick tutorial! 


Drew the outlines using a Camlin pencil of B grade.



I outlined the face and filled the birds using a black Uniball Eye pen, that we generally use for writing.

Filled the words with a red Uniball Eye pen.

Had some pieces of chalk pastels that I used in childhood. Chose the yellow little piece.
Powdered it a little using a cutter.

Spread it a little using some cotton.

Gradually changed the shade from yellow to red from top to bottom.

Voila!


  

Will post more pictures once I frame it. I hope you like it. If you do, I'd love to make it for you too! :D
Incase you want to shower me with some Tips, Suggestions, criticism.. or maybe some love ;) you're most welcome in the comment box! :)

Wednesday, 8 January 2014


So after 4 years of maddening (read studying) a course that teaches me everything about designing and construction of buildings and citiesopening an online store that deals with fashion and well-being,and blabbering about philosophies of life to every second person around,
Here I am, writing about all of it - architecture, design, decor, DIY, fashion, well-being, relationships and life as a whole, on one platform.
and I wouldn't miss this opportunity to introduce you to my best friend cum business partner cum soul sister, who inspired n insisted me to start this blog.

So by now almost every second status on your facebook friendlist must say it, and yes I'd say it too - "What a roller coaster ride 2013 has been!"

I discovered and learnt so much in this year! and I'd share some of the many things that 2013 taught me..
"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exists and their entrances" - William Shakespeare
"Each person we meet comes into our life for a reason, and once their reason is met, they are meant to depart." - words of wisdom from my best friend. :)                         


2013 strengthened my belief in the 'The Secret' and the 'Law of Attraction' - Your thoughts become things! Whatever my mind can conceive, and my heart can believe, I can achieve!
and the best and the most important lesson that I learnt in 2013 is that "Everything is OK in the end; if its not OK, its not the end."

I bid good-bye to a lot of people and habits in 2013, and said Hi to a lot more, and better ones! :D

If I had to describe the year in one word, it would be the year of 'strength'.
Strengths discovered, met and acknowledged.

and with mind all strong and arms wide open, I welcome 2014!
                                      


This year I will strive to get rid of all the weaknesses..known and unknown; and strive to be a better person than I was in the year spent. 
I will eat healthy, work sincerely and stay happier! Thats how I percieve an ideal life to be like! and this life is all about that chase to ideal-ness, isnt it?

Btw, before we meet again, did you sign up for the 100 happy days project?
                                     

I found it to be an absolutely lovely idea to acknowledge the 'much but little' happiness in this chaotic schedule. and you can be grateful about the happiness in your life, only after you acknowledge its existence, right? :)